Dear Abby: Mom & family in denial about her decline

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Dear Abby: Mom & family in denial about her decline Dear Abby: My mother-in-law is a sweet retired teacher. She lives an active life volunteering at her local Boys and Girls Club and keeping up with her friends. The issue is, her mobility and her memory are in decline, and she and her family are in denial about it.She still drives and has recently had several fender benders. She also admitted to getting lost on her way home from the store and needing to call her brother to find her. A fall resulted in a broken wrist. She thinks this is funny and isn’t worried at all. She won’t disclose anything about her health care, so we can’t talk to her doctor.My husband refuses to talk with his mom about plans for moving or getting more help at home, and my brother-in-law won’t intervene. Both have ordered me to step back. We live a day’s drive away, so if something happens, it’s going to be hard to get to her in a hurry. Why am I the only one worried, and what can I do? — Writing on the WallDear Writing...

AP visual analysis: Rocket from Gaza appeared to go astray, likely caused deadly hospital explosion

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

AP visual analysis: Rocket from Gaza appeared to go astray, likely caused deadly hospital explosion Shortly before 7 p.m. Tuesday, a volley of rockets lit up the darkened sky over Gaza. Videos analyzed by The Associated Press show one veering off course, breaking up in the air before crashing to the ground.Seconds later, the videos show a large explosion in the same area – the site of Gaza’s al-Ahli Arab Hospital.Who is to blame for the fiery explosion has set off intense debate and finger pointing between the Israeli government and Palestinian militants, further escalating tensions in their two week-long war.The AP analyzed more than a dozen videos from the moments before, during and after the hospital explosion, as well as satellite imagery and photos. AP’s analysis shows that the rocket that broke up in the air was fired from within Palestinian territory, and that the hospital explosion was most likely caused when part of that rocket crashed to the ground.A lack of forensic evidence and the difficulty of gathering that material on the ground in the middle of a war means there i...

Inside the meeting of Republican electors who sought to thwart Biden’s election win in Georgia

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Inside the meeting of Republican electors who sought to thwart Biden’s election win in Georgia ATLANTA (AP) — It was a bad place to keep a secret.When Republicans gathered on December 14, 2020, claiming to be legitimate electors casting the state’s 16 electoral votes for Donald Trump, they met at the Georgia Capitol in a room just upstairs from the building’s public entrance. A Trump campaign official asked for the electors’ “complete discretion,” telling them to say only that they were meeting with two state senators who were there.“Your duties are imperative to ensure the end result — a win in Georgia for President Trump — but will be hampered unless we have complete secrecy and discretion,” Robert Sinners wrote in an email uncovered by investigators. But reporters for The Associated Press and other news organizations noticed the Republicans entering the building and were eventually admitted into the room, where they photographed and recorded video of the proceeding. In the chaotic weeks after the 2020 election, the gathering’s significance was...

Hurricane Norma takes aim at Mexico’s Los Cabos resorts, as Tammy threatens islands in the Atlantic

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Hurricane Norma takes aim at Mexico’s Los Cabos resorts, as Tammy threatens islands in the Atlantic CABO SAN LUCAS, Mexico (AP) — Residents of Mexico’s Los Cabos resorts rushed to prepare as Hurricane Norma headed toward the southern tip of Mexico’s Baja California Peninsula for an expected landfall Saturday, while in the Atlantic, Tammy grew into a hurricane and threatened to batter the islands of the Lesser Antilles. Businesses in Cabo San Lucas nailed up sheets of plywood over their windows and government personnel hung up banners warning people not to try to cross gullies and stream beds, after Hurricane Norma regained strength and once again became a major storm Friday.Baja California Sur Gov. Victor Manuel Castro urged people to stay at home.“Nobody should leave their house after six, seven in the evening,” Castro said. “Nobody should go out.”In the Atlantic, the U.S. National Hurricane Center said Hurricane Tammy had winds of 80 mph (130 kph), and hurricane warnings were issued for the islands of Guadeloupe, Antigua, Barbuda, Montserrat, and St. Kitts and Nevis....

Venezuela’s opposition is holding primary to pick challenger for Maduro in 2024 presidential rival

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Venezuela’s opposition is holding primary to pick challenger for Maduro in 2024 presidential rival VALENCIA, Venezuela (AP) — Josselyz Essa and a friend, two 9-year-olds with a budding interest in politics as Venezuela starts toward its next presidential election, bubbled with eagerness waiting for the campaign rally to start. Then a thunderous noise spread over the crowd in the streets of the northern city of Valencia. The girls stretched up on their tiptoes and joined in the uproar, screaming as loud as they could: “María Corina! María Corina!” — that is María Corina Machado, the opposition politician they want to be president.Machado, a free-market firebrand, is the frontrunner in a primary election Sunday organized by the opposition to pick a challenger to President Nicolás Maduro. It is the first of its kind since 2012 in the troubled South American country. But even if Machado wins, it remains unclear if she would be allowed to run in 2024. While Maduro’s government agreed in principle this week to allow the opposition to choose its candidate, it also has already barr...

Swiss elect their parliament on Sunday with worries about environment and migration high in minds

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Swiss elect their parliament on Sunday with worries about environment and migration high in minds GENEVA (AP) — Swiss voters this weekend elect a parliament that could reshape Switzerland’s executive branch at a time when key concerns include migration, rising healthcare costs and climate change, which has shrunk the country’s Alpine glaciers. Final ballots will be collected Sunday morning after the vast majority of Swiss made their choices by mail-in voting. Up for grabs are both houses of parliament.The main stakes, if pollsters turn out to be right, are whether two Green parties fare worse than they did in the last election in 2019, and whether the country’s centrist party might land more seats in parliament’s lower house than the free-market party — boosting their position in the executive branch.Polls suggest that the Swiss have three main preoccupations in mind: Rising fees for the obligatory, free market-based health insurance system; climate change, which has eroded Switzerland’s numerous glaciers; and worries about migrants and immigration.The vote cou...

Evacuees live nomadic life after Maui wildfire as housing shortage intensifies and tourists return

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Evacuees live nomadic life after Maui wildfire as housing shortage intensifies and tourists return LAHAINA, Hawaii (AP) — Charles Nahale spent a restless night trying to sleep in the back seat of his pickup truck after a wildfire destroyed his home and the town of Lahaina. The next two nights weren’t much better: The singer and guitarist put his feet on one chair and sat in another as he squatted in an evacuated hotel where he once performed for guests.Nahale eventually found a timeshare condo with a bed, shower and kitchen — lodging he was able to keep until Friday, when, yet again, he had to move, this time with officials setting him up in a different hotel condo.He is one of many whose lives have become transient since the deadliest U.S. wildfire in more than a century left at least 99 people dead. The blaze destroyed thousands of buildings and unmoored residents who now face myriad challenges posed by Maui’s location and status as a vacation hub.“It’s hard to begin the healing process when you’re worried about the essentials,” Nahale said.Some are bouncing from hotel ro...

Houston’s next mayor has big city problems to fix. Familiar faces want the job

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Houston’s next mayor has big city problems to fix. Familiar faces want the job HOUSTON (AP) — The challenges facing Houston’s next mayor are familiar to many big cities: crime, crumbling infrastructure, budget shortfalls and a lack of affordable housing.But in November’s marquee mayoral election in the U.S., the top candidates promising to turn Houston around are two Democrats who have held power in the city longer than almost anyone, leaving outsiders scrambling to get a foothold as early voting is set to begin Monday. U.S. Rep. Sheila Jackson Lee took office in 1995, about two decades after state Sen. John Whitmire started in the Texas Legislature. Both have commanded the spotlight and money in the race to lead America’s fourth-largest city, where booming growth has caused municipal headaches but also turned the Houston area into an expanding stronghold for Texas Democrats. “This (new) mayor comes along at a time when the city is doing well, though the city faces issues,” said Bob Harvey, president and CEO of the Greater Houston Partnership, a local business...

Texas high school football scores for Friday, Oct. 20

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Texas high school football scores for Friday, Oct. 20 AUSTIN (KXAN) — Dripping Springs took out Lake Travis 24-6 in Class 6A action Friday while Vandegrift won big 58-0 over Cedar Ridge.Bowie ran away with a 56-7 win over Akins and Westlake pummeled Austin High 65-14 at House Park. Hutto picked up a 38-33 win over Copperas Cove while Vista Ridge reigned supreme 36-16 over Manor.REPORT YOUR SCORE: We'd love to post your team's score on our website, but we need your help to do it. Email the score of your game to [email protected] and we'll get it on our websiteWestwood drew closer to a playoff bid with a 49-20 win over Stony Point. Wimberley topped Geronimo Navarro 48-20.Check out the rest of the scores from around the viewing area as well as the State of Texas Scores from around the KXAN viewing areaA&M Consolidated 59, East View 14Bay Area Christian 35, Brentwood 28Blanco 55, Llano 24Bowie 56, Akins 7Burnet 45, Canyon Lake 20Cedar Park 17, Glenn 13College Station 63, Georgetown 21Concordia 54, Round Rock Christian 36Connally 45, Kill...

Warriors take on Spurs top pick Victor Wembanyama in first preseason loss

Published Thu, 21 Nov 2024 20:21:24 GMT

Warriors take on Spurs top pick Victor Wembanyama in first preseason loss SAN FRANCISCO — The Warriors’ best shooters need only a second of daylight to get their shots off. San Antonio Spurs phenom Victor Wembanyama’s eight-foot wingspan closed any and all gaps in a Warriors’ 122-117 loss in the preseason finale on Friday night at Chase Center. The Warriors finish 4-1 in the preseason.A few Warriors tried to shoot over the 7-foot-4 rookie with little success. He blocked Andrew Wiggins twice, first swatting a 3-point attempt then batting away his jumper after Wiggins tried to take him to the rim one-on-one. He blocked Klay Thompson’s 3-pointer, leading to a transition dunk in which Wembanyama waited a beat under the basket with the ball to let gunning defenders fly by him before barely lifting his feet to slam the ball.Jonathan Kuminga had some relative success going at Wembanyama, at the start of the second half taking him one-on-one on a drive to the basket for a layup. Earlier, he rainbow-ed a jumper over Wembanyama’s...